What’s on my mind…. I really want to write how I feel on my blog and not what I think people want to read and since I feel like people are going to read if they want and scroll past if they want I’ve decided I cannot please anyone but myself.

Having a discussion with a woman I admire for her ability to leave her job and start a business with her husband, we were discussing my blog and what people want to read. She went in on truth, that people want gossip and drama and such. My stomach started to turn as I thought about what I needed to do and how much I dreaded doing it and then I said. That’s not my thing, I can’t give ya’ll gossip and drama every blog not even most of the blogs that ish plain tires me.

I really just want a plus size platform.  I want to bond, supply jewels of creativity and knowledge and create with like-minded women. I’ve decided to give my blog my raw thoughts. My only concern is am I proud of it. Read, Scroll Whatev’s….. or comment and let’s get it.
PS Ki xoxo


Unconditional Self~Love

Unconditional Self~Love

Love is a word that is used so often. It seems to roll off our tongues as if we are saying hello, or good morning. I was watching a commercial where a lady brings the men at her workplace something for breakfast and the one man said “I love you” not until the other men looked at him sideways did he even realize he said it. The commercial was so funny to me because I have been guilty of doing this. I can be on the phone with someone and have had a awesome conversation, they may have given me some advice or confirmation and I’m so elated before I know it we are hanging up and I say “love you”.

Not until I was having a day where I was beating myself up for yet another bad decision I had made, did I realize that I can love other’s unconditionally but I never give myself the same treatment. I have talked friends and family through bad decisions and bad days and I know the things I am telling them are not only to make them feel better but they are the truth. We all make mistakes and everyday is a fresh start that our creator is allowing us to do it better.

I believe that the people who are meant for the greatest go through the hardest. This is our creators way of making us come closer to him. I mean we already know that we are strong, smart, creative…whatever our gift is, I feel we can become a bit cocky or feel we can do it on our own. Then it happens we make yet another mistake or a bad decision and we beat ourselves up way more then the outside world does….if we think so much of ourselves why can’t we afford ourselves an occasional screw up?

Why can’t we give ourselves the same unconditional love we show to others?

K&K Vogue

K&K Vogue

Soooo… it has finally happen. April’s issue of Vogue will be graced by today’s “it” couple. After his remarks where he compared his fiance to our FLOTUS Kanye does it again. I must say that whatever the man wants he seems to get. The midas touch much Ye…

Being a fan of Vogue and it’s editor in chief Ms. Anna Wintour I would love to know what was going through her mind as this issue went to press. If the movie “The Devil Wears Prada” was in fact based off of the life of Ms. Wintour I want to picture her with the pursed lips as her team presented the idea to her.

In the past I have been one of the many who asked what exactly is was that Kim. K does. What has made her famous (besides her sex tape) since then I have become a fan and I also have a certain respect for the woman. Not only did she take a position as a stylist and turn it into a full on multi-million dollar brand. She brought some friends and family along and did it with grace all while being called everything but a child of god. Kudos to you Kim, enjoy the spotlight doll. You deserve it and can you please tell your fiance he needs to bottle whatever mojo it is that he has because I would sell a kidney for that type of juice.

xoxo Ki